Friday, June 12, 2009

Anger management

The Fix-it thing this morning is about this guy (an Indian guy) who called in regarding his problem with his girlfriend. He sounded very loving, caring and all despite the problem he has. The thing is he’s been in relationship with his girlfriend for like 6 years. He loves her so much (even said that to him, the girl is his Miss World) but he can’t tolerate her anger anymore. The girlfriend have some problem with her anger management up to a point where she would throw tantrum at the guy friend’s house (he went there to watch a final match on what else; football), she kicked table at some Mamak’s and she even scolded the guy in front of his friend.

Since they’ve been in relationship for so long, the girl obviously took him for granted and he became her easiest target. But despite being embarrassed all the time by her behaviour, this guy still loves her so much and he can’t leave her. He wanted to fix this problem before they tied the knot coz by then it’ll be too late to do anything. He asked the DJ to send the girlfriend to some anger management course because the girl just wouldn’t accept it when he told her she got that kind of problem.

So the DJ called the girlfriend (a Chinese lady) and yeah true to what her boyfriend said, she sounded really angry. Keep lashing on the boyfriend and I know this type of people. They are always right no matter what and they don’t give a damn on others feeling. She was really angry because the guy dare to expose the problem on air but what else he can do if she don’t want to listen to him right.

So finally the girlfriend agreed to attend the course and the boyfriend would go to. He even promised he would change if the course can prove that the girlfriend don’t actually have problem with her anger management. But I bet attending whatever course will not fix the problem if the girlfriend herself wouldn’t want to change. And yes, I’m no expert in this thing but listening to her for that few minutes, I can guarantee you, she’s an angry-at-everything women.

I hope this guy would finally have his problem fix coz even though he said his problem is fix, nothing is fix until the girlfriend change to a calmer person coz that’s the real problem. Good luck man!

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